Relationships lessons (page 1)

  • Don't criticize, condemn or complain Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment.

    Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness.
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    By lessonist on Jul 10 2010
  • Too much attention makes people sick If you give anyone too much attention and care it will make them sick of you. Don't make them sick.
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    By niaher on May 13 2010
  • Cheating for guys It is OK as long as the relationship ends the same night. It is also OK if it is done artfully, especially if it involves 2 girls (threesome). It is not OK to let her know. It is not OK if you're a girl - RULES ARE DIFFERENT FOR YOU.

    PS - every girl is different and has different rules.
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    By guest on May 2 2010
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